* added non-pod data support to events (event delete can now call dtors)
* improved cleanup of ipc message objects (because of non-pod event data support)
* moved the "message received" event up to ipc server and client (passed on from proxies)
* separated ipc client proxy mutex into read and write (i think read was deadlocking write)
* fixed cpu spinning on ipc log send buffer thread (now uses wait cond like before).
* raised the log-to-console level to DEBUG2
* added force option to ipc log buffer (to side-step the anti-recursion "mechanism")
* made relauncher always relay server/client messages to ipc client (gui)